We live in a world of broken connections. Some of it is caused by failures of technology. Cell phones drop our calls; work stops when “the network” is down; or a power outage interrupts our access to radios, televisions and appliances in our homes.
But the worst broken connections in our homes -- are our personal ones. Broken marriages -- set the partners adrift and put the children in limbo. Old animosities fester against the in-laws, against the neighbor, against a good friend. Many people become alienated from their own world, longing to connect with somebody … anybody!
In Matthew’s Gospel, Jesus taught about two great Laws that are to mend broken connections. The first Law is to love God. Making peace with our Creator is the most important reconnection of all. The second Law is to love our neighbor, whoever he or she may be (Matthew 23:34-40). The old breaks in life’s connections will begin to disappear when people live out this kind of love.
The word "Love" is big word, and so overused in our language. It is used in so many ways that it has almost lost its meaning. So I would like to recommend a different word, compassion. From now on, approach everyone with compassion. That’s really what Jesus is talking about in Matthew’s Gospel.
Compassion is not some kind of washed out, meek and mild love. It’s love on fire, love reaching out, love that can fill our hearts with excitement and joy. Love is compassion that enables us to be open, and it creates a positive, friendly atmosphere. It allows us to receive affection.
So how do we mend our broken connections that have festered for years? We must first confront the person -- head on, face-to-face -- and then be willing to compromise and commit.
Confrontation - There is nothing to be gained by delay; the sooner—the better!
Compromise - Be willing to bend; it doesn’t always have to be your way.
Commitment - Make a commitment to “reconciled and restore” the broken connection.
And remember, we really don’t live in the real world, we only live in somebody’s heart. And if we keep compassion in our hearts, it will eliminate broken connections.
Dr. Marion J. Miller is the pastor of Later @ St. Luke’s, a multicultural 6PM worship service located at St. Luke’s United Methodist Church, 100 W. 86h Street. Check out her webpage at www.stlukesumc.com. She may be contacted at 317.846.3404 or millerm@stlukesumc.com.
